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no_illusions on Nov 29, 2008 at Midway Cafe (Jamaica Plain, MA)
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| Summer Mosh Party Fest: First Jason (Ari Lehman THE ORIGINAL JASON VORHEES FROM Friday The 13th), Rasputin, Across The White Water Tower, Half Empty, No Eye Has Seen, Ocean Of Illusions, Bleach Temple, Justin Arena, Sophisticated Adult, As Within So Without, Bitter Bones, Desmo., Jailbait, Drugsta | Ralph's Chadwick Square Rock Club (Worcester, MA) |
| give consideration to the '3 (the specific Frisky) First thing one morning I got a text from one of my friends, The kind I get nearly always: "Met my husband to be last night, My response was my the norm one: "Get back to me in weeks, If I've learned one valuable thing from the dating whirligig I've been on going back six years (Give or take six months here or certainly there), It's that you must wait at least three months before looking towards the long term possibilities of a new person. I don't need to sound cynical or jaded. I totally believe in love for myself and my girlftriend, But what I believe in more is that it takes a really long time to get to know someone and it's a complicated process. Whirlwind romances were very popular these days for me in 1997, But I'm older and wiser now. And not anymore wear red velvet leopard charmingdate.com print pants. The first three months of knowing someone is a time of illusions. Instead of seeing the person objectively, You see them for who you would like them to be. Your object of desire is laden with fantasies and projections. I think it takes about three months to strip away the layers and start to see this person for who they are really. I can't even count how frequent that I or a friend started dating someone and days or even weeks later found out there was something seriously messed up about him. "oh yea, you haven't been in love and you're 35, "also, You just got out of a 10 year intimate last week, "goodness me, You don't ever desire children, "ohio, You're mentally volatile, The more and less obvious developments about another are made in that three month period. That's stuff you should know before you move forward. of course, I think three months gives you enough time to see if the new person in life is consistent. Do they call when they say they will? will they cancel dates? Do they even have plenty of time for dates? Do they want to hang out once a week or six times a week and does that mesh with what you're looking for? How can they treat you after a month? Any major arguments on fundamental things? How do they behave in numerous situations? The being compatible check list is endless. You need those three months to gather the data you need to decide if you want this person in your life for the next three months. each of our Frisky: 10 best tips for dating online With all the disappointments that can come along with dating, I say why bother getting in a tizzy about someone who could be a Russian spy? rest room I always say to myself, To my friends, And for your requirements, personals, Check in after several weeks and tell me how great the new person you're dating is. If everything is still coming up roses, Maybe I'll dance a jig on you. But it could take me six months to a year before I'm buying this "My husband to be" organization. | Turkey |
| Barricade (Eulogy Recordings) Talk Is Cheap (Refusal Records) Last Lights, Kill Andrade, No Illusions | Midway Cafe (Jamaica Plain, MA) | |
| Word for Word, Ja Moustache Eddies (NY), Wombat in Combat (NY), Kill Andrade, No Illusions | All Asia Cafe (Cambridge, MA) |
| THE FREEZE/PSYCHO/P.T.L. KLUB and NO ILLUSIONS | ANCHORS UP-HAVERHILL MASS (58 RIVER ST.) | |
| The Freeze, P.T.L. Klub, Psycho, No Illusions | Anchors Up (Welfare Records) |
| 26 Beers, Disaster Strikes, Suburban Showdown, Kill Andrade, No Illusions | Midway Cafe (Jamaica Plain, MA) | |
| No Illusions, Planned Communities, Negative Insight, Kill Andrade | All Asia Cafe (Cambridge, MA) |
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